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July 8, 2026

The Problem With "Reinvent Yourself" Advice

I opened my inbox to an email titled Reinvent Your Life in 30 Days, and my first thought was: that sounds exhausting. So obviously I read it. Inside was a reader who'd checked every box and still wasn't happy — who felt like it was too late to change course. The advice he got back was a matrix and 30 minutes a day of "reinvention." I would've told him something different.

Recent Posts from Jessica

Your Intuition Is a Compass, Not a GPS Destination

June 25, 2026

Your Intuition Is a Compass, Not a GPS Destination

A compass tells you north, south, east, west. It won't tell you where to go — that part's on you. Intuition works the same way. Once you get honest about your destination, intuition stops feeling quiet and starts showing you the route.

Reclaiming Our Purpose

June 22, 2026

You can't lose your purpose

Purpose is one of those words in the spiritual world that people have either a love or hate reaction to. And I get it. It’s one of the most overused words ever. And I’d love for you to give it a second chance.

Why I Stopped Trying to Do the Summer Solstice Right

June 18, 2026

Why I Stopped Trying to Do the Summer Solstice Right

For years, Summer Solstice felt like another thing I was doing wrong. Turns out I was just trying to do someone else's practice. The one that actually stuck? Simple, doable, and completely mine.

June 11, 2026

What a Muddy Garden Taught Me About Saying No

Everyone told you to say no more. Set boundaries. Stop doing the things that drain you. But if you've tried it and the big shift never came, you're not doing it wrong — you're just missing one piece: knowing what you want to say yes to first. A muddy afternoon in the garden made that click. When you get clear on your intentions, the no's stop feeling hard. They become obvious.

June 8, 2026

I Almost Cancelled the Podcast Interview (I'm Glad I Didn't)

In the middle of our biggest lifequake yet — two days into an RV trip with four cats, a dog, and a teenager — I found myself sweating in an alcove, about to record a podcast interview with two complete strangers. Nothing about it felt like the right moment. And then it turned out to be exactly the right moment.