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March 19, 2026

Spring is here, and with it comes the urge to take stock — in the garden and in life. For years I grew eggplant because I thought I should, even though no one in my house ate it. When I finally pulled it, I made room for what I actually wanted. Our lives work the same way — crowded with inherited beliefs, old yeses, and roles we never chose. Plants do better with space to grow, and so do we.

March 5, 2026

Uncertainty isn't a rough patch — it's the default setting of adult life. Studies show we spend 15-25 years in major life transitions, yet we keep treating uncertainty like a problem to fix. This post explores why control, reframing, and surrender all fall short, and what actually helps: knowing what matters now, understanding where you have real agency, and developing self-awareness from inside the uncertainty — not after it.

February 19, 2026

My husband came home from a Coast Guard rescue once with a story I've never forgotten — survivors of a plane crash had formed a circle in the water, linking arms so no one had to stay afloat alone. That's always stuck with me, because it's exactly what getting through hard times actually looks like.

February 12, 2026

We're shifting from the Year of the Wood Snake (release) to the Year of the Fire Horse (movement) on February 17th, but your personal transition doesn't have to match the calendar. This post identifies three stages: Still Shedding, The In-Between, and Ready to Ride - with a specific practice for each. Wherever you are, you're not behind

February 5, 2026

When normal never comes back after a major life change, how do you move forward? A personal story about living inside ongoing uncertainty and finding your footing when certainty isn't available.